Monday, August 13, 2007

What I'll Miss

The things I'm going to miss the most about the Dominican Republic:

1. All the kids I have fallen in love with.
2. Guaguas and public transportation and motos. Everything about the crazy driving.
3. The uniquely Dominican words and phrases I have learned, such as "guagua," "chin" which means "a little bit," and "zafacón," the word for trashcan.
4. The Makarios house. The roof. Sleeping on the roof and getting to sleep under stars and wake up looking at mountains to the south and the Atlantic Ocean to the north.
5. Getting to go to Cabarete once a week and having that time for Sabbath.
6. Watching "Dirty Dancing: Havana Nights" with Robin and Camille.
7. The staff and interns, especially those who are staying for a year and not coming back to Austin, and the community we developed.
8. Chinola juice.
9. Fresh fruit.
10. Home cooking. Who knows if I will cook a single thing that I learned once I get home!
11. Dominican hospitality. People will give you, a complete stranger, the only chair they have just so you can sit down and be comfortable, even if you haven't even introduced yourself. How often do I even welcome in my neighbors in that manner?
12. The time I had to be away from the comforts I expect in the U.S. and spending that with the Lord.
13. Skim Ices.
14. Our crazy drivers full of Dominican machismo.
15. Dominican machismo (I guess I won't really miss this.)
16. Getting to meet new and amazing people each week to serve short-term.

Basically I'm just going to miss everything. The only thing I won't miss is this very long day of travel. I am sitting at the airport in Santiago right now. I have been up since 4 a.m. Texas time, but my flight does not leave here until noon, and I'm not getting in until midnight!

Friday, August 10, 2007

Saying Goodbye

I have spent my last days in the villages that have made up my entire summer, Pancho Mateo, Chichigua, and Tamarindo. My heart is overflowing with mixed emotions. I cannot wait to see everyone back home—all my friends and family, the girls I care for at Westwood HS, but each time I left a village, my heart ached for the kids who I have promised I will see again. I know I will, that I will be back here often, but I don’t know when, and I wish I could tell them I did know. It has really just hit me that I have learned so much from each child that I have grown to love, that they have humbled me through the way they have interacted with me, loved me, and given me when they had nothing. In Tamarindo, kids guard my backpack, carry it for me, and make sure no one takes anything from me. It’s ridiculous!

God gave me unreal amounts of energy these past few days. Two days ago it started pouring while we were in Tamarindo, playing out in this open field. Instead of not playing, Robin and Constance and I just started running around in the rain and dancing with the kids. We did cartwheels and I raced twenty kids, cheated, and won as the rain fell. It was just incredible.

I said good-bye to Jaina in Chichigua today. I got to carry her out to the field one last time and hear her beautiful laugh when we tickled her and her bright smile at all the attention she was getting. I brought some lotion for her and left it at her house. It was already inside when I brought it back so I have no idea if her family will ever use it on her or if they will just use it for themselves but I am thankful that I got to give it to her regardless.

There are two girls in Tamarindo, Amanda and Felicia, whom I met around a month ago. They are 13 and 12 and just amazing and I got to give them both Bibles and write in them. Even though we just barely communicate because my language skills are limited, we have gotten really close and I absolutely love them. Today we had a race across the fields with an awesome girl from the Austin Stone group, Ashley, and stopped to rest post-race. They started singing all these Christian songs they knew, and then all of a sudden, Amanda asked me if I wanted to pray. I was taken aback, and pretty certain I hadn’t heard her correctly – surely this 13-year-old girl isn’t asking me to pray in the middle of the day out of the blue? She was though, and I was terrified but said a basic prayer in Spanish solely because the Lord was right there with me, giving me words. After I finished, each girl in turn asked to pray and prayed the sweetest prayers I had ever heard, thanking God for our friendship and for his Word and that we could learn more and more about him. They prayed for my trip home and for our group.

Later on, we were all hanging out, and one of the boys whom I love, Ruben, said something completely mean to me because he was angry that someone else was playing with my camera instead of him. I guess Felicia could tell that he had kind of hurt me because she ran up to me and said, “Don’t listen to him. I love you so much!” in Spanish. Then Amanda chased him down and made him come apologize to me. I have been blessed to have these girls love me just as much as I love them. What a blessing it is!
With Tamarindo kids
Caught in the rain with the kids and Robin and Constance
Kids attacking me (I don't mind)
Playing clapping games with Felicia and Amanda and Ashley

One time...


...this kid, Esteven, peed on me when I was giving him a piggy back ride. And I was too sweaty to notice.

Monday, August 6, 2007

Haiti

I wish I could have written all last week but never could be by a computer long enough to do so. As I write this I realize I will be home (or at least on a plane) in exactly one week. I can't believe how my time here has flown by!

This last week gave me the exciting opportunity of going to Haiti for three days and two nights. Constance, Phillip, Chris and I went with Ben White, who is fluent in Creole after living in Haiti for years. Since he knows his way around the country and can make sure we aren't getting ripped off, he was invaluable to the trip.

We expected long days of traveling and the need to be flexible and that's just what we got. After the almost three hour trip to the Dominican border, Dajabon, we crossed over and had hardly any trouble at both borders. Ben seemed to know people everywhere so there was never a problem. Once we ccrossed the border into Ouanaminthe, we took motos to the bus station, then got onto a tiny "bus" with three long benches that we ended up sharing with lots of chickens. The ride to Cap Haitien took a long time, maybe three hours, partly because the cops on the road would see white faces in the bus, stop us, and make us show our passports. It was really interesting the way cops felt the desire to exercise their power over us as Americans.

I think I was most surprised by two things when I got to Haiti. First of all, it is much lusher than I imagined. I expected to not see any trees, and while a lot of the land is destroyed, it is still beautiful and green in the mountains especially. Then when we arrived in Cap Haitien, I don't think I could have been prepared for just how poor it is. The poverty is evident in every grey building, in the dirt kicked up in the roads, in the tall walls protecting the bigger buildings. We stayed on the edge of town in a mission house of friends of the Whites, which was a huge blessing in itself as it had electricity until ten, working bathrooms and showers, and they even had a fridge and water for us. Even though the fans went off at night and we would wake up sweating profusely, I slept well both nights there. Plus, they were so kind to let us stay for free!

Wednesday morning we got up pretty early to go see the Citadelle. Built by Henri Christophe between 1805 and 1820, the Citadelle is just outside of Milot, a town not 30 miles outside of Cap. We decided to walk up the seven mile trail to the top of the mountain where the fortress is. 20,000 people died building this fort in order to protect northern Haiti from an attack from France or from the south, but neither ever came and Christophe actually killed himself the same year the building was finished. It took us hours to climb up, and the whole way there were men on mules tempting us to just give in and take one up, but we didn't, and when we finally made it, I realized how worth it the trek was. We climbed to the very top of the fortress, where you can walk around without guadrails and see how beautiful Haiti is. I've never experienced anything like it!




We were about halfway down the mountain and I was starting to think the sun would go down before we even got to the bottom, when we heard a car coming down the road. Ben flagged it down, and it turns out the driver worked for the Ministry of Tourism and said he'd give us a ride the rest of the way down the mountain in his air-conditioned car. He ended up taking us all the way back to Cap (which was around 30 minute drive), ate dinner with us (where I tried goat meat), and took us to our house at the other side of town!

The next morning we set out to head back to Santiago. Our tap-tap, which are Haiti's form of public transportation -- tiny truck beds with seats on them, was supposed to take us back to downtown Cap so we could take a bus back to Ouanaminthe. Well, it got a flat tire so everyone had to get out. We flagged down a taxi who offered to take us all the way to the border for $75 American dollars. We decided to do it since it was more comfortable than the bus we had taken before. The taxi made it about 20 minutes outside of the city before it had a bad gas leak and we all had to get out. So there we were, stranded in the middle of Haiti, in between towns. Ben tried to stop every car but we had trouble finding one that would go all the way to Ouanaminthe. We sat out there for around half an hour until we found one truck that let us hitch a ride on the back. I can't believe my first time to hitchhike was in Haiti! So this truck was not going to Ouanaminthe, only about halfway, but offered to give us a ride the whole way there for $40 US dollars. It was hilarious. Phillip, Ben, and I were facing the road behind us, getting covered in dirt, suspended four feet at least above the truck bed and holding onto bundles of textiles that weren't exactly strapped down. It was definitely wild. I got incredibly dirty and feel like I'm still finding dirt on me days later. It was such a great experience, and we made it back alive, crossed the border, got ice cream at Bon, and caught a bus back to Santiago!
Me, the dirtiest I have ever been!

Now I am back at the Puerto Plata house after spending three more nights in Santiago. One at the Hub, and two at the White's with the second group from the Austin Stone! We have already been to Ruben's farm and fed kids at La Lomita, a really poor community near Ruben, and this group is incredible. Unfortunately, I am sick to my stomach today so I am stuck here at home while the group is starting English camp in the villages. This makes me so sad because it's one less day I get to spend with the kids in the villages that I love so much. I already feel better than I did yesterday so I am planning on going with them tomorrow. I can't wait to see all the kids I have missed this past week!

Friday, July 27, 2007

Jaina


One of the things to affect me most here in the Dominican Republic has been my relationship and interactions with a girl named Jaina. Jaina is an 11 or 12-year-old wheelchair bound girl who suffers from Cerebral Palsy. There’s a hut at the edge of the village in Chichigua where Jaina usually sits all day while everyone plays around her. She doesn’t really speak but seems to understand and can make some noises that sound like words. That said; she is one of the happiest girls I have ever met. I love getting to sit with her, or bring her into the schoolhouse when we are doing activities. One great memory of mine is when I brought some bubbles that a group had into her hut and blew bubbles for her. She tried so hard to blow them as well, and after about 15 tries, succeeded! Even the other kids, who often ignore her, cheered.

Yesterday, the group and Constance and I went to Chichigua for the afternoon. When I went to see Jaina, she was smiling as usual, but a complete and total mess. I think she had been eating sugar cane and so she had crumbs and drool all over her, plus her arms and legs were covered in dirt. She just smiles and squeals when people come in so of course she was excited. I had some antibacterial wipes on me that the family group left the other week (thank you guys for leaving those!) and so I took them out and cleaned her up. She loved it! She took one of the wipes once I was finished (I used at least three to get all the dirt off of her) and started wiping it up and down her leg the same way I had. Her skin is so cracked and dry and so I think I want to bring lotion another day to help her elbows and knees.

Many of the group members came to sit with this sweet girl as well, just to be there and to read some Bible stories we have in Spanish. She absolutely ate up every second, smiling and laughing and just enjoying the attention she so deserves but never receives. The group who is here this week has tons of energy and so they were running around playing tag with the kids and Jaina kept pointing outside, partly because we could see her horses, cows and her father, and partly because she wanted to be out there so badly having fun. So, I picked her up and ran around with her in my arms. It brought me so much joy to see her so happy and laughing! I loved seeing some of the guys from the group pick her up as well and run her around. I’ve never seen a smile so big. Overall, it was one of my best days in Chichigua.

I think part of why being with Jaina is so special to me is because of my own sister, Abi. I see a lot of parallels between the two of them. It kills me seeing Jaina’s legs, scrunched together and unable to be straightened, knowing that if she had the resources we have in the States, she might have been able to have the physical therapy to make her legs straighten out—maybe to even have walked. The way she moves and sits reminds me of a more rigid version of my sister. The same things even make them happy—Abi loves people and animals, as much or more as Jaina. You should have seen her when cows started walking by the hut; she was “mooing” like crazy! It reminds me just how much I have been blessed to live where I do and that my sister has had the opportunity to thrive under her circumstances. If she lived here, I can’t imagine what her life would be like.
Abi at Special Olympics
Abi on her birthday

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Mosquitos and ants and wasps, oh my!

Well, here's a new first for me. I was taking a nap after a long day out in the villages, when I woke up suddenly and brushed something away from my eyes. That something struck me and immediately caused pain to shoot all through my face. I touched my cheek, or rather, the skin just below and to the right of my right eye, and could feel some sort of bump from a sting. Trying not to panic, I went next door to Alexia and Robin's room and asked for their help. Robin took tweezers and managed to pull out a really long stinger. Thank goodness it didn't sting my eye! It was huge! Too huge to be from a bee. And so close to my eye. I have iced it, rubbed garlic on it, and taken Benadryl, but even an hour or so later, it is still hurting. I guess you can pray for it to stop swelling and stop hurting! This is the most interesting thing to happen to me today so I think it merits writing about.

The new group who is here for the week are mostly part of a youth group from Philadelphia, and I am again continously amazed at how these people cross language barriers to love kids well. Not only do they tackle the villages with new energy that those of us who are here day in and day out simply do not do, but they encourage the staff as well too. I am so thankful for them!

Please keep Evelina in your prayers. This is a woman who lives in Chichigua. She was an English student of Alexia's and has four sons, Junior, Ernesto, Jesmarco and Ambiolin, some of whom attend Camille's classes. On Sunday, her husband passed away suddenly. We have no idea what happened, as it was a completely unexpected death, in the middle of a game of dominoes. Haitians and Dominicans grieve differently than we do--after the death they mourn outwardly, wailing and screaming and crying, and then they bury the body and live moves on as though unchanged. But this woman is hurting and needs comfort that she will not find here, so pray for her. Pray for the four little sons this man left behind, the youngest of whom probably does not even realize that his daddy is gone. Sorry it's sideways, but this is picture of Ambiolin, Evelina's youngest son. He wears sweatshirts a lot.

A picture from last week: Rebecca, Camille, Robin and Alexia in Cabarete -- all the current and former Makarios teachers!

Saturday, July 21, 2007

Things Spotted on Motos

This is a short list of a few of the random things we have seen on motoconchos (little motorcycles) here in the Dominican Republic:

Babies
Four people (including three male gringos: Brad, Drew, AND Barrett)
Television
Groceries
Chihuahua puppy
Bag of trash
Washing machine
Ladder
Chicken
Wheelbarrow
Skim-Ice popsicle cart
Pig (alive)
Pig (dead, see photo)

I hope to add more to this list.